As a middle age man there are moments in my life that I wanna forget, but there are many that I love to reflect on and smile or even cry. In my 34 years of life I have been blessed with 4 great brothers. As a young gentleman my early years were times that I honestly didn't understand the importance of brotherhood. Growing up we all were kinda split up with Keith and myself being raised by our wonderful grandmother and grandfather, and Jamie, Damien, and Cakey staying with our mother. I have to say knowing my mother like I know her if she had a 2nd chance to do it all over we would have all been together, but it was the best thing that could have happened at the time. As my brothers and I all got older, wiser, and more independant I being to realize that I defintely should try my best to have a healthy relationship with all of em. Most people go thru life and and are never blessed they way I was to have four brothers and believe me they are all very different. Weather its brothers, sisters, aunt,or uncles take a step back and understand the value that of siblings like I did, deep down inside I always root for them to succeed in life and I know that all of them are cheering for me. When my brothers or whoever else decides to open this up and read it I wanna convey to them is fellas how much they mean to me and that I love yall cats with every ounce of substance that I have and hope that each and every one of you guys understand that. Love life, love yourself, and continue to strive for greatness. PEACE.
Job well done Kels!! Its funny that you posted this blog. For I have three sisters and just the other day my sister and I (youngest) got into a heavy discussion. I refused to argue or call it an arguement. She became very emotional. It all started, because she is not use to my change. As I begin to explain to her that the way I am now is to better me and protect me from the past me. I explained to her how we grow and we change as we get older, and its going to be somethings that I say and do that she may not agree with, but if it offends her in anyway she is to call me on it so I am aware of what is taken place. I said that to say that we grow as individuals, and we are not young people anymore. Learn to accept the things that I can not change and the things that I can. So your blog is right on time, and I love all my siblings regardless of any arguement or disagreement we may have. Kels, job well done and I congratulate you on your beginnings and successes. I am proud of you. love you.
ReplyDeleteThanks Yanick very much for your words of encouragement. As you well know we all mature as we get older just based on sometimes responsibilities in life. Continue to love your sisters for they are very fortunate to have you as a big sister, leader, and roll model. Like i always end most of my writings love life, love yourself and continue to strive for greatness. PEACE.
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